4/14/2019 0 Comments
Just when you think emotions are not the cause of your pain...
I wanted to share a story with you about one of my clients that is going through the Pain Freedom Method™.
The other day she was experiencing low back pain that resonated into her hip leaving her bedridden and sick to her stomach.
When I asked her what happened in the day when the pain started, she shared with me emotionally she was feeling off and really sad. I asked her to explain what had happened to create the sadness. She told me earlier that day she was dropping her children off to school and the teacher to one of her children confided in her that she has terminal cancer. When my client said this out loud, she then said to me I cannot even cope or bear to think about it and then she started to cry!
Already knowing my clients past and childhood trauma, I realized feelings from her past were surfacing and, as I teach all my clients, instead of running from the pain you run towards it. The pain is there to tell you something and really the deep aspect is, it is a decoy so you do not have to pay attention to the feelings that are playing in the background.
This is something that all my client are just blown away by. How could your body create pain to stop you from paying attention to feelings that are so powerful and uncomfortable?
The answer is simple, you are asking not to feel the emotion and so many times with my clients the emotions are buried so deep they think there is no association with those emotions when there absolutely is.
I brought up a particular situation from my clients past of a parent leaving her at a very young age and the impact this had. At first the client said there is no way, it was so long ago and I am over it! This connected to the emotions that she could not even bear to think of in that moment when the teacher said she had terminal cancer. The teacher too had children and so does my client. Number one, this client knows what it is like to have a parent leave at such a young age, and two, being a parent themselves, the parent leaving their children had a massive impact.
The biggest emotions my client was running from was the emotions of abandonment and fear. The moment she connected and acknowledged the emotions and the direct connection of her own situation it freed her from the pain. After our conversation, her back pain was gone 100%!
If this resonates with you and you have questions or would like to chat please book in with me HERE.
I would love to help! My mission is to teach the world how to heal their pain and move through their emotions no matter what the trauma is.
Hugs and Love,